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Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Musings

What is it that makes some people strive beyond every possible bolder that lays in their life's path?  What is it that makes some people push past the barriers of their lives? What is it that makes some people different than the rest of those around them? Why do some people excel to greatness while others from like experiences do not?  What is it that gives some people  the key to delve into their soul to find the value of life itself?  Who is Mandela? What can possibly be life's true purpose?  Is it touching the life of one, two or maybe more other people?  Is it to enrich your own life?  Is it just " to be",  to be counted as one of the many great accomplishments of the world?  Where and when does a hero begin?  How does a villain grow?  How is it that some are the best and some the worst?  Is it possible that "better" can sometimes be better than best?  Is poverty a choice?  Where does hope live?  What is stamina? 

As far as I can tell, the glass is more than half full.  It is overflowing!

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Contrasts

Queenstown, South Africa is full of contrasts from the lush flatlands surrounded by mountains, the hot, sunny days intermittent with cool, rain showers, the mixing of cultures in the various neighbourhoods to the more culturally defined areas.  While shopping areas are open to all, economics play a large role in participation. In most cases the economic divide is also cultural.  Opportunitities are most evident yet some barriers are still hard to conquer.  In the schools, the lack of resources in some is most apparent. There is a great need of resources here in order to level the playing field for full future success.
Throughout the history of South Africa there have been distinctions made between four basic groups of people, the Indian, the Blacks, the Coloured and the Whites.  Now, although time has brought many changes those four groups, while able to live and travel anywhere freely, social events have not yet entirely woven together.
Courtney and I have had the good fortune to be included in a wide variety of activities and events here in South Africa as a whole.  Being a mixed couple and from Canada has afforded us opportunities others may not have been lucky enough to experience.  As a result of this good fortune we are able to see the past, and present, from many points of view.  While barriers have begun to breakdown somewhat much is still developing.  Personal freedoms are evident yet internal and subtle biases and outlooks linger on.  This process will take a long time. 
The hope of greater barrier breaking lies within the schools, within the level of education that all students are entitled to, the formal training that all teachers, in both public and private schools, must have and particularly within the Ministry of Education and its checks and balances regarding Human Rights within its mandate.
Contrasts in philosophy cling to some past discipline practices which conflict with needed understandings in respect to the dignity of all children and the valuing of their worth.  Encouraging them to think and to share their knowledge through collaboration, debate and dialogue is slow to reach its importance.
Jobs and wages need to improve to allow families to work closer to home to ensure that the children grow up with a strong sense of family as many parents are forced to work far from home,even in other cities to be able to afford their children's schooling and in many cases their boarding fees as their schools are also far from home. Those children living at home are often cared for by grandparents or extended family.
While the struggles continue, actualizing full potential is within grasp.  I am grateful to be a small part of helping to bring that reality closer.  Courtney's and my contributions to date have been well received.
We love this country and its people!

Sunday, February 6, 2011

Paradise Found

I thought I knew what beauty was until now! Beauty is standing on the top of a mountain on a warm and sunny day with the breeze blowing in your hair while you look down on the valley below where you actually live, only five minutes away.  Beauty is wandering through a game reserve finding one animal after another. Beauty is watching the statuesqe grouping of giraffes defying you to come closer. Beauty is a rhinoceros standing in front of you. Beauty is seeing zebras playing without a care. Power and beauty surrounded us Saturday morning when, on the spur of the moment, we decided to visit the natural game reserve behind where we live. Breath-taking views mixed with a multitude of animal species. Just another typical day in Queenstown, South Africa! The magnificence, grace and frolicking nature of these animals is beyond belief. The peaceful coexistence of this animal community is miraculous.We are humbled by every new episode. Our good fortune to share these experiences in our lifetime is incredible. Thank you Mother Nature!

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Amazing Journey

Just new at this! Be patient! My husband, Courtney and I are presently in Queenstown, South Africa volunteering in a school providing special education support as well as professional development for teachesr.  First we landed in Johannesburg in mid January.  Great bonus for us, after meeting a woman from Joburg on our plane from Amsterdam was taht she took us everywhere and introduced us to many of her educator friends.  Wewere able to get not only a good snapshot of Joburg but also of education in South Africa as she had previously been an educator and now she works for the municipal government in Gauteng.
Amazing to stand in the house where Nelson Mandela lived.  To see where and to learn about the struggles he and his peers endured.  To be standing where he hid when the police would come looking for him,  Very powerful!  Very moving! 
Once in East London and taking our ride to Queenstown, two hours north to our destination for the next six months we could begin to get a sense of this gorgeous, mountainous terrain.
Arriving at ourlocation, an amazing B& B, Heritage House, was incredible.  All of the people we have met so far have been extraordinarily outgoing, friendly and most accommodating.  We must be in Heaven for real! 
We had two days to get settled, two more days to meet all the teachers and then school opened.  Meeting the students was a highlight.  All fresh and excited about beginning a new school year all in their beautiful red and blue uniforms.  Connections with teachers were quickly made and we were off on an incredible journey into the lives of people halfway acound the world, feeling as if we have been here forever. 
It always amazes me,no matter where we have travelled, of the many similarities in the midst of many diiferences that exist. Imagine discussing the "toothfairy" with grade twos here, as at home! Amazing!